To build communities of caring, we see a need to teach and promote empathy. Most programs for children with special needs place the emphasis on modifying the child’s behavior. We know that autism is not a behavioral disorder, so the Love Andrew team with the help of Oakwood Middle School is putting together a new group program designed to help typical kids understand and be friends with someone with special needs.
As Christina Papaleo, the school counselor says “Since the school day is so structured, the kids don’t have time to develop deeper friendships – we want to help them move past the hellos and high-fives.”
The pilot group consists of seven boys, chosen because they display good character, empathy, and kindness and Andrew. In order to give the boys an idea of what things are like for Andrew, a special demonstration was set up to illustrate what being overwhelmed by sensory input is like. The boys were asked to complete a trigonometry test, hard enough by itself, but with the addition of strobe lights and constant sounds for competing phone ringtones. No one was able to concentrate and finish the quiz.
Everyone has things they’re good at and things that are challenging for them. What this exercise showed the boys was that people with autism have to do their challenging activity 24/7. Without a place like the Star Room, there’s no way for them to regroup to put their best effort forward.
As the program unfolds, we will take what we learn to develop and refine it. Next year it will be open to other children and ultimately become a program that other school counselors can use wherever there’s the need.
Julia, new Sesame Street character with autism. Sesame Workshop
Many of our friends and supporters send us links about Julia, Sesame Street’s newest Muppet. Of course we were very excited about the character and happy with her introduction. What makes the addition of Julia especially significant to us, is the way the Sesame Street creators chose to portray her as a child with autism.
The character took years to create and a lot of careful consideration went into her every detail For instance, though more boys are diagnosed with autism, (1 in 42, compared to 1 in 189 for girls) the show’s creators made a conscious decision to create a girl character so people wouldn’t think only boys are on the spectrum.
What’s really important about the character is how she’s described – a child who does things differently. Children with autism are five times more likely to be bullied in school, so teaching empathy is an important foundation.
“Our goal is to bring forth what all children share in common, not their differences. Children with autism share in the joy of playing and loving and being friends and being part of a group” said PBS senior vice president of U.S. social impact, Dr. Jeanette Betancourt.
It’s significant to Love, Andrew to see a nationally recognized and beloved children’s show portray a child with autism in a positive light. For more information and resources for parents and children, visit https://autism.sesamestreet.org/.
The holiday season is almost here, and you can help Love, Andrew just by doing your normal holiday shopping.
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Simply go to smile.amazon.com, search for “Love Andrew Autism Foundation” when asked to select your charity and get back to shopping.
The Warstler Star Room is coming along, and we’re all working to grow out constellation of caring. Thank you in advance for your support!